To lose it all

Ever lost anything you considered dear? Ever had to give up a feeling of loving someone, till it hurt your innards? If you haven’t probably you never loved.

Introspection I believe is the reserve of few and far. But I don’t want to sound pompous or boastful. Many people don’t counter or face their demons. They’d rather turn the page, sweep their issues under thick carpets or forget about it completely.

What they don’t realize is – the fact that it creeps on you someday. Feelings never die, love never dies. It just moves on to someone and something else.

To love someone more than yourself and having feelings is experiencing divinity in every moment of being in love. Its a place/frame of mind where even the tiniest of gesture by the object of your affection takes your breathe away. But to what avail is such love when its unrequited or unrealized or unappreciated by the person you love?

Its a nightmarish situation of feeling alone when you are with the person. Being clueless in a relationship is a sin. Be cued and clued in to what your partner has to say. Why does he/she do things they way they do? Tell your better half to be patient, but don’t test their patience.

Sometimes hurtful words come out during fights, but not giving a benefit of doubt only means that the relationship wasn’t of value and one could move on without a major scar.

Its ok sometimes to run away or break. When things become unbearable and fights border on torture. But give a chance till you reach there.

Relationship is a pile of solid brick.

Always fighting the good fight.

Yours,

Cerebral Zephyr